Hello Lorraine,

When being assertive, we be assertive – healthily assertive – regardless of whether it is a teenager, and regardless of whether it is our own child. Learning to effectively assertive with assertiveness training results in us appropriately asserting our rights, regardless of who the other person is.

The “how?” part of both of your questions is tough to answer in full here, in a blog comments section and without further information. I’d be inclined to seek out a professional who is familiar with assertiveness training and seek professional guidance, advice and support. If that is not an option, there are some excellent books on the subject. PM me if you need further personal assistance as this is public, obviously.

I would say though that a child who has “previously had difficulty voicing an opinion and standing up for what is right” is an ideal candidate for assertiveness training, absolutely.

With my very best wishes to you,

Adam

Also how do we teach assertiveness to our children if you have a child who has had previously difficulty voicing an opinion and standing up for what is right.

Am I right in believing the logical side of the brain has not fully developed yet.